How to Know If a Girl Likes You
Dating and figuring out if someone likes you can be stressful enough. This guide will help you understand if the girl you have your eye on likes you just as much as you like her.
- Analyze Her Body Language
Body language can tell you a lot more than words about how someone feels about you.
• Pay attention to whether or not she faces her body in your direction when you’re talking. If she does and is open to more physical contact like holding on to her arm and hand, then it’s likely she’s interested in you.
• Determine if her eyes ever linger on yours and she gives you flirty glances.
• Look for little signs of physical contact like if she has lightly touched your arm or shoulder. If she touches you, it’s a sign that she likes you.
• Watch her laugh at your jokes, even if they aren’t funny. Girls who laugh at your jokes, regardless of how funny they are, are often interested in you.
- Make Note Of Her Conversation
The conversations you have with a girl can tell you a lot about how she feels towards you.
• Notice if she engages with you or simply replies with short, one-word answers. A girl who is interested in you will likely try to make the conversation last.
• See if she brings up topics that let you know she’s been thinking about you and interested in learning more about you.
• Note if she starts conversations with you even if it’s just a few texts per day.
- See If She Texts You
In addition to having an in-person conversation, keeping the dialogue going via text is a great way to tell if a girl likes you.
• Note if she keeps the conversation going even after small talk is finished.
• Observe if she often responds quickly to your texts or at least as fast as she can.
• If a girl likes you, she may add in compliments and ask questions that show she’s paying attention.
• See if she starts the conversation, even when you’re not sure what the topic is.
- Pay Attention To Compliments
If she’s giving you compliments, she likely notices things about you that she likes.
• Look for compliments about physical appearance, but also appreciate the kind words she makes about your character.
• Notice if she’s giving compliments more frequently than before, as this could indicate that she’s starting to feel attracted to you.
• Notice if she’s constantly finding ways to compliment you and make you feel good.
- Look For Signs Of Jealousy
If a girl starts to get jealous, it’s a clear sign that she likes you.
• Note if she starts to get defensive when you talk to other girls.
• Make sure to examine her facial expressions when you talk about another girl.
• See if she becomes snippy or rude when you talk about other girls.
- Analyze Her Actions
Actions speak louder than words and the actions a girl takes when around you can tell you a lot about her feelings.
• Notice if she spends time with you, even if other people are around.
• Pay attention to how she talks to you, as she may joke around more with you than with others.
• See if she goes out of her way for you, like getting you something without you having to ask for it.
• Note if she tells her friends about you or asks you to do things with her.
- Make Sure She’s Available
If a girl is genuinely interested in you, she’ll show that by creating a schedule around you.
• See if she starts rearranging her life whenever possible to see you or spend time with you.
• Make sure that she’s available whenever you ask her to hang out and isn’t full of excuses.
• Observe if she’s making plans with you further into the future and has no issue with creating a schedule around your availability.
- Watch If She Gets Flustered
When a girl is around her crush, she is likely to get a bit flustered and shy.
• Notice if she gets a bit taken aback when you’re around and can’t look you in the eye.
• Observe if she glances away when you’re looking in her direction and suddenly gets tongue-tied.
• Look for her getting a bit more blushy and things like her and it could be a sign that she’s interested.
- Consider Her Friends
Friends can tell you a lot about how someone feels towards you.
• Note if her friends start teasing her when you two are talking or even mention that they think she likes you.
• Watch if her friends seem excited to see you around or somehow start to include you in the group.
• Watch other signs such as her friends constantly asking if she has told you how she feels or perhaps even dropping hints that they think you two should listen to each other.
- Keep An Eye Out For Physical Contact
Another clear indicator that a girl likes you is if she increases physical contact with you.
• Notice if she’s making small touches when you’re walking together or even just touch your arm to get your attention.
• Note if she hugs you goodbye and holds on for a little bit longer than usual.
• Watch if she smiles when you’re touching her and whether or not her body language seems open when you’re around.
Knowing if a girl likes you isn’t always easy, but the signs listed above can help you determine the truth. Pay attention to the conversations she has with you, her body language, and the way her friends react when around you to help determine if she likes you or not.
